Memorable Wedding Gifts

Gifts given by the bride and groom are definitely part of the wedding tradition.

Gifts From The Bride And Groom

Topping the list of those likely to receive a gift from the bride and groom are members of the wedding party. That includes the best man, maid (matron) of honor, bridesmaids, ushers, groomsmen, junior bridesmaids, flower girls, and ring bearers. Although not mandatory, it is also a nice gesture for the bride to give a gift to the groom and vice versa. These days, each set of parents is also included on the gift-giving list.

And finally, it is definitely a nice gesture to give a gift to any other person who did something special during the occasion. Perhaps someone is asked to do a special reading at the ceremony, or to step in for the bride's father and walk the bride down the aisle and these individuals should be acknowledged.

Don't Break The Budget

The purpose of the wedding gifts is not to spend lavishly, but to show your appreciation. A gift that has been specially picked out shows you put thought and consideration into the gift. Take the time to include a personalized note with the gift thanking the person for whatever role he or she played and it is certainly a nice touch when having the gift engraved with the wedding date and couple's names or initials.

Plan Ahead

Purchase the gifts at least 4 weeks prior to the date of the wedding. That gives you enough time to have them engraved and to create your personalized messages. Take special care in wrapping them, as this will make an even greater impression on the recipient. Use fancy wrapping paper and elaborate bows using colors that complement the wedding colors.

Because of the intimacy, the best time to give your gifts is during the rehearsal dinner. The people to whom you're giving the gifts should all be present.

Need Some Gift Ideas?

First of all, when buying gifts, take into consideration your wedding budget. You've likely spent quite a bit of your money by this stage, so it's important to take a realistic look. Brides usually give each member of the bridal party a piece of jewelry or a hair clip to be worn on the wedding day. Other gift ideas include bath oils, bud vases, a collectible item, a gift basket, or picture frame.

Gift ideas for the men in the wedding party include business card holders, cigars, a clock for their desk, engraved pens, key chains, or pocket watches. A professional wedding photo in an engraved frame or a personalized letter detailing your appreciation, are perfect gifts for the parents. For each other, the ideal gift is anything that conveys your love and devotion.